Saturday 16 January 2016

Resolution 2016--- Decisive and Positive thinking !


I realized that when my inner faculties are robust and cohesive, I let go of those ludicrous thoughts , don’t act on those which are deceptive and I switch my mind’s platform to rest only on the beneficial and the salubrious ones.
Welcome 2016 !
Had read somewhere that our body has reserve cells that will replace or heal anything that our attention is focussed on and so a negative belief can hurt or kill as much as positive emotions can heal and revive. “ Inarguably , so easily written than done.”
Now, I am one who has turned a HEN , meaning Happy Empty Nester who has taken this new freedom, without any more dabbas to be packed or those pickup and drops to the crèche with routine follow ups on my kids homework.
I took this new avatar as a rite of passage, one which enabled me to follow my passions which had been involuntarily blocked for a while.
I take solace from the fact that we have social media now, the Hangouts , the Skype and various other medium to communicate with my loved ones. We all know that nothing helps fill vacuum like the sliding chair outraging on Facebook or watching a belligerent Saas arguing with her Bahu on popular soaps.
I get a hint of my existential life when I get trapped beneath the layers of self inflicted over sized emotions and then my whole system works in a tangent. It is then that the words ‘positivity’ gives me some perspective and my indomitable human spirit triumphs to ease out that feeling of depletedness.
Life, it seems does not follow the path of our desires and strategies as much as that of our intentions and beliefs. To know and and accept what I desire of 2016 , attracts the same reality in me. Today I say ”I have to just be myself.”

I have to let go.